I appreciate everyones advice. Don't get me wrong, I truly believe my priorities are relatively straight:
First off, it's not more that 9K in debt that needs to be paid off, and it's all low interest. Secondly, I agree that we never really know how long these cars will be out. Third, as much as I wish I could get the R/T, I know being a previous SRT and RT owner, I'll really want that extra HP and options(no disrespecting the R/T lovers). The way I see it, I pay our bills, we make good money, we invest in our future, and we invest in our childrens college funds. I believe I've covered all the basis to be a little selfish. So, I think if it takes a little more time to pay off the debt having that car payment, it might be worth it. It's just that, "you've got a family now, and you need to be 100% selfless," guilt trip running through my head that caused me to write the original message. Lastly, my Dad was selfless, and he was never happy because he never did anything for himself. I figured if I've got all the above covered, don't you think I deserve to think of myself too so I don't go down the same path of never enjoying life and the things I love? I welcome comments on the matter.
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