
Alrighty then, finally saw the post I was waiting for...the one where it says your wife loves muscle.
I really think spending that amount of money has to be a decision the whole family agrees with. You have received lots of great advice from this fabulous forum and have a good head and a good heart. Now you and your honey should make your decision together and go with the one that works best for you and your future plans.
Regardless of what you decide, enjoy each other and take those kids to every car show you can!