I got the kit in the mail today, but I can't even get past the first page of the instructions (which seems to be very well written). I can't get the 1st connector of the outboard tail light. It says to slide the red lock and push on the cam lock and it will slide off. I slid the red tab, but the cam lock is not releasing. I even got the tail light housing off the car so I could get a good look and i still can't figure it out. Here's a pic of the connector.